This is really some core "who am I" type issues. I had a similiar situation 15 years ago where I fell into a depression. I was talked into doing a weekend seminar by Landmark Education. It might sound hokey but I found it to be so powerfull that after the weekend I shut down my business, sold my house and ended up starting a new business 6 months later that ended up making me quite wealthy. Obviously not everyone will have the same results but if you want something to shake you out of complacency I can't think of a quicker, better way to do it.