When a 1:1 turns into a vent session(nomadfornow.com)2 points·by yihwan·5 ปีที่แล้ว·1 commentsnomadfornow.comWhen a 1:1 turns into a vent sessionhttps://nomadfornow.com/blog/when-1:1-turns-into-vent-session/1 commentsPost comment[–]readonthegoapp·5 ปีที่แล้วreplyThis seemed mostly dismissive and patronizing and manipulative -- meaning, that is how op treated his underlings.Part of that is because their idea of venting is inherently just a worker being a spoiled brat or unjustifiably disaffected.The point of the advice here seems to beHow to get thru your 1on1s in a way that tries to leave a generally positive impression on all the folks who hate their jobsWhich is most of themFor the purpose of helping op earn that next promotionAll that saidI hate 1on1sI don't think I have ever gotten anything of value from them except to know with more conviction that I needed to bounceAnd I'm guessing the manager has gotten the same impressionI suspect 1on1s could be useful in some way to the org or manager or employeeBut I doubt it
Part of that is because their idea of venting is inherently just a worker being a spoiled brat or unjustifiably disaffected.
The point of the advice here seems to be
How to get thru your 1on1s in a way that tries to leave a generally positive impression on all the folks who hate their jobs
Which is most of them
For the purpose of helping op earn that next promotion
All that said
I hate 1on1s
I don't think I have ever gotten anything of value from them except to know with more conviction that I needed to bounce
And I'm guessing the manager has gotten the same impression
I suspect 1on1s could be useful in some way to the org or manager or employee
But I doubt it