Do you love her. Really think about it. Not in some abstract sense, there is no love formula, that's why school don't offer it as a class. If you love her, you'll know the answer.
All i want to say really is slippery slope. I never hoped on the Facebook thing, even though I get that email spam from people I know who are on it every now and then. My main gripe was you could never actually delete your account, and now the business reports on the founders sister showing data mining, and now the change of the TOS. They are bleeding money they don't have just to keep the lights on. People may enjoy it, but even in a digital world, I prefer a modicum of privacy.
This may not be popular, but, I use HP laptops almost exclusively, I'm a Python and PHP mostly programmer (I have been learning Java for about a year), and I have three HP laptops. A dv2300 pavilion, an HDX 16, and an older one, can't remember series, that still works. They all dual boot windows and linux (sorry, no OSX, just doesn't appeal to me). As long as you can easily add ram and HDD's (one of the reasons apple doesn't appeal to me), almost any mainstream laptop will suit your needs