A lot more people have died of terrorism in Japan than Denmark. And in both Japan and Scandinavia most terrorism has been committed by members of the ethnic majority.
As far as I can tell those accusations have not been substantiated. I'm ready to believe it if you have evidence - a recording of a Yelp salesperson using extorionate language would do.
In response to your meta question, I found it weird that you specifically asked if the parent felt bad about the 4000 men but not the 34000 women. Though I didn't downvote.
Oh, I was mostly worried about how an advertising company was using my interests to decide whether to show me an ad for batteries or hair cream.