One of the best ways to be free of the tyranny of money is to have enough and lock it away in relatively safe investments. You'd be surprised at it not being that hard to deal with. Certainly if you are smart enough to generate it in an interesting way then you should be smart enough to crack this problem too. Leeches etc. need not be a problem if you have a modicum of discretion and are not ostentatious.
How are the public transport options? I've been rather spoiled by underground/subway/metro in the big cities. Easy movement with a minimum of fuss. Backed by liberal use of cabs when shitty weather or rush hour threatens of course.
I know all of those cities. I'm hoping to make it to austin city limits next month if my schedule cooperates. I've lived in NYC and visited Boston and and Seattle many times.
NYC is fun for a while. I could live there again. Seattle felt a bit small and depressed last time I was there. Austin just has hot and drunken live music memories. I need to visit in a more serious mood some time.
There are plenty of what you're saying for sure. I've had the same experience in other places - and also the experience that actually there's far less content than meets the eye. A LOT gets recycled and regurgitated endlessly. If you're not selling anything or trying to get anything then take the time to just sit back and listen. It starts getting surreal. Especially if you have 10 or 15 years of solid tech background and you realize there are far fewer "rock stars" than people think. Particularly the rock stars themselves.
That said - I'm really happy for you that you are finding it an exciting experience. Good luck with it! As I said before, I'm sure we'll have many more successful companies coming from here. Hopefully some of them will create lasting value.
The valley has a whole has been a letdown. The city is nice but no better than many other cities. South bay is a string of ok small towns with little to no decent nightlife.
I've met many fine engineers, plenty of talented and smart people no doubt, but to be honest it's not that there aren't equally smart and talented people elsewhere. I consider some of the people I work with to be world class... but not better than other world class people I've had the pleasure to deal with. Many of whom are hungrier for it. More wild west.
The valley seems like a middle aged club with lots of sycophant youngsters willing to work themselves to death to get in. Plenty of startups rehashing ideas with the occasional, undervalued imho, gem. I think it's easy to argue that the valley is the center of the universe given the incumbent position of privilege it has. There'll be plenty more money made here and plenty more resulting mutual masturbation.
Maybe it was different in past years.
But I can't help but feel that the smartest money looking to build long term world-changing companies might be wondering.. and starting to look elsewhere for the next revolution. There'll be a pullback given the recent economic upheavals but the world is a big place.
Have you been to greenwich village? Faded glory. The left bank in paris.
Like them I don't think the valley is going away. Just succumbing to middleage spread.
Of the 45m I only walked away with ~20m net. But besides that, I was in an industry with a lot of very very overpaid people. Some made that much a year. Kept my feet on the ground.
I've met him. Plus a bunch more Valley personalities. I've been underwhelmed by their openness to non-fawning unknowns. Which is amusing me. A couple of years ago I sold my unknown european startup in a private (and NDA'd) transaction for around 45m dollars. After the handcuffs expired I moved to silicon valley last year and since then I've been lurking in the community. I've been talking to everyone and not playing up my background. The arrogance and name-dropping is hilarious. The importance of being in the right circles. I actually have a day job working on a fun project so that I could meet and work with people. Immerse myself in the culture so to speak. I find it there as well. Newly minted Stanford PhDs sure are full of "confidence" shall we say :-)
I'm small fry - don't get me wrong - but the 'personalities' certainly want you to do the running and love the attention. I'm actually pondering starting my next company somewhere else because, frankly, I'm not convinced that the valley echo chamber is the best place to be (unless you are flipping fad companies of dubious long term value).
Like you, I definitely don't want fame.