Hello, upon reading this post I felt great sorrow for your situation.
I have seen many scams,(I do not believe you to be involved in any kind of scam), and known many people with visa issues.. I believe you are a truthful, honest person who deserves the best...as well as having the best intentions towards others.
While I am in Texas and have can not offer support at this time...I do know a few people in California and Oregon who may be able to help you...I am sending your post/email to them momentarily. Are there any other states have an interest in regarding living/working etc.?
Please let me know and I will see what I can do to connect you with assistance.
Also, please keep us up to date regarding your situation.