It's said train up a child in the way he should go, and even when he is old he will not depart from it. Both parent and child need instruction I recommend the God words.
Life is too short, ours future is set to ours faith in Jesus. It is wise to be close to our savor and be more and more like him and less and less as we are.
I guess you are asking how to be a good developer. I suggest you to learn by doing. Watching and reading tutorial in not enough. Go and check some tutorials and try at least 2 hours everyday sit and code.