Ask HN: How to respond to someone who puts down a programmers passion
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He sees programming as a professional and paid for activity. Consider if you would have to get into golf professionally, working 8 hours a day on it, and having to ensure steady revenue from it.
Now golf is a physical work reminiscent of the skills needed to hunt and kill mamouths and similar game. Instead programming is a purely intellectual activity akin to mathematics or philosophy, something you can do only when you have the leisure and time for a hobby.
Now golf is a physical work reminiscent of the skills needed to hunt and kill mamouths and similar game. Instead programming is a purely intellectual activity akin to mathematics or philosophy, something you can do only when you have the leisure and time for a hobby.
Q: How can programming be a hobby?
A: Same way playing with a ball and club all day can be a hobby.
A: Same way playing with a ball and club all day can be a hobby.
We were making small talk, I asked what his main hobby was. He responded: 'Golf'. which is awesome. Most like a round of golf every now and then.
When he asked me mine, I responded: 'My main hobby is programming.'. Fair enough right?
But no, he laughed in my face and said: 'How can programming be a hobby?'.
I was stunned. I had never been confronted with such an honest and demoralising response before. I felt humiliated, and for some reason ashamed. I dont know why but I did.
How do I come back to someone if they say that to me again without sounding like a complete geek? Or do i just ignore it and rise above it?
has anyone else been in a situation like this before?