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Crockford didn't call anyone a moron. He called a piece of code stupid. There's simply no reasonable way to connect the dots from that to Crockford thinking that the person who wrote the code is mentally deficient. He just objects strongly to a particular coding style. Leave it alone.
This is an important distinction. Randal Schwartz had similar complaints and at some point years ago even added a disclaimer to his posts.
Attention!
The following comment is never meant personally.
You are not your code. I most likely do not even know you
personally, and don't make presumptions about your
character or habits based on a single posting.
I'm only commenting on the ability
for the code you posted to do its stated task,
with particular attention being paid to:
* Security
* Maintainability
* Avoiding needless reimplementation
* Contribution to the community
If I sound like I'm flaming, please re-read the message
a few more times until you see that it's about the code
and the Perl community, and not about you personally.
That is all. Thank you.
C'mon; short of Skynet code doesn't have the capability of intelligence so calling code stupid is calling the person that wrote it stupid for having done it. When one says "this code is stupid", there is absolutely no express nor implied caveat of "...but of course I totally separate you from it". (I suppose someone further along the autistic or sociopathic continuum than most might genuinely make that distinction.)
Of course you are correct in the absolute that Crockford doesn't think the author has an actual mental deficiency, but that's not what calling someone stupid means, either.
Of course you are correct in the absolute that Crockford doesn't think the author has an actual mental deficiency, but that's not what calling someone stupid means, either.
I reject this analysis entirely.
A couple years ago our team had a really bad relationship with another team at work. They were morons. They did everything wrong, and made LOTS of work for us.
One day I found I was sick of it -- I stopped calling them idiots. I told my immediate cow-orkers, "I'm tired of calling them shitty names. I'm just not going to do that any more."
The embarrassing thing that people around me said was, "Good!"
In a few weeks, interesting things began to happen. First, they started listening to my team and me. With a little guidance they stopped making decisions that made life tough for everyone. Now they're not doing /great/, but it's sure a lot better.
There is another team I'm going to tackle next. This one is harder, it's been entrenched for years, and it's costing us money. But I have to turn things around, and the easiest thing to start doing is to stop calling people fucking morons.
Calling someone a moron is the first step down a slippery path, even if you /know/ they're a moron.
One day I found I was sick of it -- I stopped calling them idiots. I told my immediate cow-orkers, "I'm tired of calling them shitty names. I'm just not going to do that any more."
The embarrassing thing that people around me said was, "Good!"
In a few weeks, interesting things began to happen. First, they started listening to my team and me. With a little guidance they stopped making decisions that made life tough for everyone. Now they're not doing /great/, but it's sure a lot better.
There is another team I'm going to tackle next. This one is harder, it's been entrenched for years, and it's costing us money. But I have to turn things around, and the easiest thing to start doing is to stop calling people fucking morons.
Calling someone a moron is the first step down a slippery path, even if you /know/ they're a moron.
Stop jumping to conclusions. Linus reacted to a troll comment that was later deleted. Something along the lines of "What, your shit don't stink?". It deserved the moron reply. Stop jumping to conclusions rather.
It may have deserved that type of response; but justifying that with idiotic response in kind is just as stupid. Simply ignore the troll and move on.
Or, it could be taken as a lesson: Even if you're Linus Torvalds reacting to a totally moronic comment, it still might not be wise to answer in kind.
he has no obligation to react to idiotic comments in kind. Would you answer a troll kindly? If you do, how long would you be willing to do it? Forever? 2 days? 10 comments? If not forever, why not forever? If Linus had the time you and I had discussing in hn comments, I would guess linux would not be what it is today.
"In kind" does not mean "kindly". It means "in the same way".
then it makes no sense at all in the prev commenter's comment. i assumed, in context, what he meant was a kinder response and based my response off of it
then it makes no sense at all in the prev commenter's comment.
Actually, it makes sense in context to most native English speakers. "To reply in kind," is an oft used idiom. In this phrase "kind" is a synonym for type. It is to say, "to reply in the same way." (Usually in a way which is not kind in the kindness sense.)
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/retort
I would agree, however, that one, "has no obligation to react to idiotic comments in kind." I hope I've succeeded.
Actually, it makes sense in context to most native English speakers. "To reply in kind," is an oft used idiom. In this phrase "kind" is a synonym for type. It is to say, "to reply in the same way." (Usually in a way which is not kind in the kindness sense.)
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/retort
I would agree, however, that one, "has no obligation to react to idiotic comments in kind." I hope I've succeeded.
whatever happened to "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all"?
sure, that's absolutist and not always the best response, but not feeding trolls is a tenet of most successful online communities.
sure, that's absolutist and not always the best response, but not feeding trolls is a tenet of most successful online communities.
then what're the rules to figure out who's troll? I could be well intentioned and totally come off as a troll, if I disagree with majority. I could not be a troll, even if I am proposing the absolutely horrendous idea, to a majority which agrees. Not everything is black and white.
Then always err on the side of good faith. If you think something's blatantly a troll, ignore it. If you're not sure, engage politely. It should become clear pretty quickly if you're being trolled or not. There's no reason to start off being a dick, and people will respect you more for it.
I have a ton of respect for Linus Torvalds' technical abilities, and for his way of succinctly and clearly explaining what can often be difficult concepts. However, his off-the-bat lack of civility -- hell, active hostility -- disgusts me sometimes. I'm sure he doesn't care, though: as he said, he's managed to accomplish his goals on the internet just fine how he is. So that's fine, I suppose. I just find it disappointing.
I have a ton of respect for Linus Torvalds' technical abilities, and for his way of succinctly and clearly explaining what can often be difficult concepts. However, his off-the-bat lack of civility -- hell, active hostility -- disgusts me sometimes. I'm sure he doesn't care, though: as he said, he's managed to accomplish his goals on the internet just fine how he is. So that's fine, I suppose. I just find it disappointing.
Then always err on the side of good faith.
There's also another attribute of the smartest people I know: they tend to interpret other's responses given the most intelligent interpretation possible.
In the case of some, though, complete neutrality is the best one can do.
There's also another attribute of the smartest people I know: they tend to interpret other's responses given the most intelligent interpretation possible.
In the case of some, though, complete neutrality is the best one can do.
that's what he did. he engaged politely, until someone said something stupid. he only debated technical points until then. the guy who posted the stupid comment was just that, stupid, not a troll, so he went on a tangent to put that person in place. he was totally civil to whoever was civil, if you are taking what he said to other person as not being civil to everyone else, who need to re-evaluate your sensibilities.
Can you delete messages in threads on github? I see one in there where Torvalds addresses someone named Joseph, though I don't see a message farther up in that thread with that name, in which he says "You're a moron." At the very least, all the posts above that one are pretty civil and normal, nothing to incite that kind of response.
At any rate, there are plenty of examples (no links offhand, but I imagine they're fairly easily googlable if you're curious) of lkmk exchanges where Torvalds is flat out rude to people who are clearly wrong, but, from what I can tell, at least behaving civilly up to the point Torvalds blasts them.
Regardless, though, I still would argue that even in the face of an idiot slinging insults for no reason, "you're an idiot" is a waste of energy and not particularly respect-worthy. Don't feed the trolls.
At any rate, there are plenty of examples (no links offhand, but I imagine they're fairly easily googlable if you're curious) of lkmk exchanges where Torvalds is flat out rude to people who are clearly wrong, but, from what I can tell, at least behaving civilly up to the point Torvalds blasts them.
Regardless, though, I still would argue that even in the face of an idiot slinging insults for no reason, "you're an idiot" is a waste of energy and not particularly respect-worthy. Don't feed the trolls.
Insults in general are perceived, rightly or wrongly, as something that speeds socialization. It's the "football coach" approach to managing new talent, a calculated gamble that the stick is more effective than the carrot and that little of value is lost when someone is pushed away from a community when they're socialized harshly.
It'll be interesting to see whether kinder, gentler open source communities start obviously outproducing ones operating on the Torvalds/Drepper model.
It'll be interesting to see whether kinder, gentler open source communities start obviously outproducing ones operating on the Torvalds/Drepper model.
The comparison to a football coach is very accurate, but I think it's unfair to put Linus Torvalds and Ulrich Drepper in the same bucket.
While Drepper is pure asshole, Linus just uses insults in the same situations the rest of us would use bold text. I wouldn't like to be on the receiving end of one such email, of course, but most of his tirades are actually very constructive.
While Drepper is pure asshole, Linus just uses insults in the same situations the rest of us would use bold text. I wouldn't like to be on the receiving end of one such email, of course, but most of his tirades are actually very constructive.
I think both of their demeanors have the same cultural lineage. I didn't want to cherrypick, so I threw Drepper in there, too.
It may be the norm for Torvalds, but more often than not, insults are just an easy cop-out from people who got in too far or realize that the other person had a point all along.
Besides, I'm sure Torvalds doesn't throw around insults to people who have clearly articulated a point and demonstrated an understanding of the topic discussed, and were willing to listen.
Besides, I'm sure Torvalds doesn't throw around insults to people who have clearly articulated a point and demonstrated an understanding of the topic discussed, and were willing to listen.
Its difficult to understand the attitude of people blatantly supporting hubris and arrogance in this thread.
There is a very big difference between telling 'This is where you are wrong, you may need to do x and y to correct it' and 'Your work is stupid, and you are stupid to have worked on it'. Sure you might have achieved something in life, what makes you believe somebody else can't? Using your fame to make others look like idiots just to prove your point is never good behavior, no matter who you are. Your fame is no free pass to ridicule, belittle and abuse other. Whoever you might be.
Another thing you must never do is humiliate and ridicule other just because he looks weak at the moment. Never ever ever underestimate any one. That guy can work his way out of the problem and may be even beat you, while you day dream how weak he is.
Also when you work hard, win and become famous you must be content and be happy that your efforts were well rewarded, instead of assuming that somehow you are special and have godly powers. And nobody can ever reach your level of fame and success. This is hubris.
There is a very big difference between telling 'This is where you are wrong, you may need to do x and y to correct it' and 'Your work is stupid, and you are stupid to have worked on it'. Sure you might have achieved something in life, what makes you believe somebody else can't? Using your fame to make others look like idiots just to prove your point is never good behavior, no matter who you are. Your fame is no free pass to ridicule, belittle and abuse other. Whoever you might be.
Another thing you must never do is humiliate and ridicule other just because he looks weak at the moment. Never ever ever underestimate any one. That guy can work his way out of the problem and may be even beat you, while you day dream how weak he is.
Also when you work hard, win and become famous you must be content and be happy that your efforts were well rewarded, instead of assuming that somehow you are special and have godly powers. And nobody can ever reach your level of fame and success. This is hubris.
Insults drive people who can't handle them away. By experience, those people will worry about meaningless things and make a fuss about nothing. Insults are a filter, just deal with it. If you don't like someone because they talk harshly just don't deal with them, you're free to do as you please.
Really? Blunt criticism is fine with me (welcome, even!), but insults are completely unacceptable. Insults are disrespectful and create a hostile environment. It sucks when you have to deal with a hostile environment and we should try to avoid creating one rather than telling people to deal with it. Just look at all the recent discussions on women in tech.
My thoughts exactly. I'm so annoyed by these form over content discussions. Look, people, Linus gave us Linux, he's shown he is incredibly selfless through his actions, and you're judging him for his words?!?
Words are action. Linus wrote the words, then posted the comment (two actions write there).
I hate to break it to you, but everything counts.
I hate to break it to you, but everything counts.
Sure. But some actions have more weight than others. Who is a more moral person, a nice guy who speeds on the highway, or a murderer who drives by the limits? Are you gonna judge someone who says he loves women, but kills them during the night, by his actions or by his words?
The "nice guy" who speeds does so in reckless disregard for the fact that his speeding can easily cause an accident that could kill people (depending on how fast he's going, obviously). Cars are freaking dangerous.
I don't believe anyone is an idiot. For I have seen many people do incredibly smart things. People who work at fast food restaurants. Security guards. Pizza delivery drivers.
If you saw [1] Hawkins strolling down in his electric wheelchair you would not even think they guy is one of the smartest minds to ever challenge the world.
Everyone is capable of amazing things. There are no morons.
[1] Thank you eblade for pointing out that I wrote Dawkins (the biologist), instead of Hawkins.
If you saw [1] Hawkins strolling down in his electric wheelchair you would not even think they guy is one of the smartest minds to ever challenge the world.
Everyone is capable of amazing things. There are no morons.
[1] Thank you eblade for pointing out that I wrote Dawkins (the biologist), instead of Hawkins.
It's professor Hawking that's wheelchair bound.
Yes, thank you. I'm always confusing them both.
Also, thank you for not calling me a moron.
Also, thank you for not calling me a moron.
Articles like this keep reminding me of Billy Connolly's exclamation of "Fuck political correctness!" Sometimes you should be free to call a spade a spade.
Recently I have been seeing leaders in software communities regardless of being correct or not, basically blowing up on other software developers on the internet because of something _stupid_ they have done or said.
That's only because you've started paying attention recently and that is only because you, like so many people (myself included), get your dose of interesting news from places like Hacker News, instead of participating directly in, say, kernel development.
Let's face it, it has become trendy to criticize outstanding people with outstanding accomplishments for being rude. Yeah, okay, I get it: nobody likes being humiliated. Plus, everyone has been humiliated at some point in their life and isn't it just incredible how, after all that time, it still smarts to remember it?
It's easy to jump to conclusions and on the bandwagon, easy and righteous to join the mob with pitchforks and torches. It's a lot harder to put yourself in the shoes of "the rude dude" and wonder whether you have all the context you need in order to judge him or her.
REALLY?! Just because you were fortunate to work on something that is widely used and appreciated does that give you the right to openly belittle people's efforts and work.
The short answer? Yes. The long answer is a bit more complicated, but since you and so many others seem to like simplifying things, I thought I would offer the short answer first.
The long answer is that I've seen that kind of reaction firsthand from people who have built something incredibly complex from scratch, know it inside out and get the same well-intentioned but poorly thought-out suggestions all the freaking time. It doesn't stop there, unfortunately. Those kinds of things tend to get debated to death, because bikeshedding is so alluring. More often than not, the person who offered the suggestion in the first place will get offended when their suggestion gets tossed out summarily, without realizing that they're far from first to come up with that idea. And some of those who get offended will react badly and even abusively. So in the end, the guy who built the damn thing decides that maybe they don't have to take that shit anymore.
Yeah, I know, Mom and Dad taught me to be polite to everyone and never be rude and say "please" and "thank you" and two wrongs don't make a right and I shouldn't sink down to "their" level and all that. You know what? I can't imagine being as accomplished as Linus or Crockford and turning the other cheek all the time, not when there are people who will write stuff like "Just because you were fortunate to work on something that is widely used and appreciated". Nope, they were not fortunate. If you think that's luck, you should spend your time playing lottery.
And then there's the assumption that every time we see the kind of reaction Linus is famous for, it's because someone feels entitled to "belittle people's efforts and work". Never mind that it might be a situation in which no effort or actual work took place. Never mind that it might have been something truly dumb and a little research would have revealed it to be a staggeringly bad idea. Hell, never mind that it could have been a troll and that seeing a reply for which there is no original message should have indicated to you, as a reader, that there's a missing piece and that you simply don't have enough information.
No, let's all be self-righteous instead, because -- to paraphrase xkcd -- someone was rude on the Internet.
Recently I have been seeing leaders in software communities regardless of being correct or not, basically blowing up on other software developers on the internet because of something _stupid_ they have done or said.
That's only because you've started paying attention recently and that is only because you, like so many people (myself included), get your dose of interesting news from places like Hacker News, instead of participating directly in, say, kernel development.
Let's face it, it has become trendy to criticize outstanding people with outstanding accomplishments for being rude. Yeah, okay, I get it: nobody likes being humiliated. Plus, everyone has been humiliated at some point in their life and isn't it just incredible how, after all that time, it still smarts to remember it?
It's easy to jump to conclusions and on the bandwagon, easy and righteous to join the mob with pitchforks and torches. It's a lot harder to put yourself in the shoes of "the rude dude" and wonder whether you have all the context you need in order to judge him or her.
REALLY?! Just because you were fortunate to work on something that is widely used and appreciated does that give you the right to openly belittle people's efforts and work.
The short answer? Yes. The long answer is a bit more complicated, but since you and so many others seem to like simplifying things, I thought I would offer the short answer first.
The long answer is that I've seen that kind of reaction firsthand from people who have built something incredibly complex from scratch, know it inside out and get the same well-intentioned but poorly thought-out suggestions all the freaking time. It doesn't stop there, unfortunately. Those kinds of things tend to get debated to death, because bikeshedding is so alluring. More often than not, the person who offered the suggestion in the first place will get offended when their suggestion gets tossed out summarily, without realizing that they're far from first to come up with that idea. And some of those who get offended will react badly and even abusively. So in the end, the guy who built the damn thing decides that maybe they don't have to take that shit anymore.
Yeah, I know, Mom and Dad taught me to be polite to everyone and never be rude and say "please" and "thank you" and two wrongs don't make a right and I shouldn't sink down to "their" level and all that. You know what? I can't imagine being as accomplished as Linus or Crockford and turning the other cheek all the time, not when there are people who will write stuff like "Just because you were fortunate to work on something that is widely used and appreciated". Nope, they were not fortunate. If you think that's luck, you should spend your time playing lottery.
And then there's the assumption that every time we see the kind of reaction Linus is famous for, it's because someone feels entitled to "belittle people's efforts and work". Never mind that it might be a situation in which no effort or actual work took place. Never mind that it might have been something truly dumb and a little research would have revealed it to be a staggeringly bad idea. Hell, never mind that it could have been a troll and that seeing a reply for which there is no original message should have indicated to you, as a reader, that there's a missing piece and that you simply don't have enough information.
No, let's all be self-righteous instead, because -- to paraphrase xkcd -- someone was rude on the Internet.
> Sometimes you should be free to call a spade a spade.
"Sometimes" is the key word here. But people tend to take it too far - they start thinking if you yell "this is a fucking spade!!!" loud enough, that magically makes everything into a spade. Most of the times it's not. You can afford being blunt if you're genius, but if you want to emulate a rude genius, don't start with rudeness. Start with developing a new OS and making it worldwide success, then you can proceed to rudeness. Though I would rather you didn't, but after the OS part who cares what I think. But please don't start with the rudeness part. Actually, it would be nice if rude geniuses would be a bit less rude too, just to provide an example. But OK, nobody's perfect. I just feel there's a lot of rudeness out there in open source world, and after years of doing it - it starts to get old.
What I'm seeing is that 99.9% percent of people "calling spade a spade" do not contribute much by it and scare off people. And in open source people is the only capital the project has, so it's pretty much like business owner making a daily cash bonfire in the backyard. Yes, people make dumb suggestions, especially people that are new to the area. But it's not hard to treat them respectfully - or if one doesn't have time for it, just not respond and let others who have more time do it. Maybe the geniuses should get themselves a good PR person? :)
The point is in 99.9% of cases rudeness carries no value (most frequently negative value). The content of rude answer may carry one, but that would be preserved without the rudeness. Of course, in case of geniuses, their positive value is so immense that the negative part is completely overwhelmed by the positive one. But it still is a negative.
"Sometimes" is the key word here. But people tend to take it too far - they start thinking if you yell "this is a fucking spade!!!" loud enough, that magically makes everything into a spade. Most of the times it's not. You can afford being blunt if you're genius, but if you want to emulate a rude genius, don't start with rudeness. Start with developing a new OS and making it worldwide success, then you can proceed to rudeness. Though I would rather you didn't, but after the OS part who cares what I think. But please don't start with the rudeness part. Actually, it would be nice if rude geniuses would be a bit less rude too, just to provide an example. But OK, nobody's perfect. I just feel there's a lot of rudeness out there in open source world, and after years of doing it - it starts to get old.
What I'm seeing is that 99.9% percent of people "calling spade a spade" do not contribute much by it and scare off people. And in open source people is the only capital the project has, so it's pretty much like business owner making a daily cash bonfire in the backyard. Yes, people make dumb suggestions, especially people that are new to the area. But it's not hard to treat them respectfully - or if one doesn't have time for it, just not respond and let others who have more time do it. Maybe the geniuses should get themselves a good PR person? :)
The point is in 99.9% of cases rudeness carries no value (most frequently negative value). The content of rude answer may carry one, but that would be preserved without the rudeness. Of course, in case of geniuses, their positive value is so immense that the negative part is completely overwhelmed by the positive one. But it still is a negative.
It's perhaps worth noting that it's not calling a spade a spade though. A moron is literally a person who is mentally retarded, though it's use in science is now limited since it's considered offensive.
It's one thing to say "Your idea is a bad one", "What you say doesn't make sense", "Your reasoning is flawed"....etc. It's lazy and offensive to just dismiss someone by suggesting they are disabled in some way.
I also don't understand why people feel the need to take these conversations into the realm of absolutes.
If someone stands up and suggests "Hey maybe we shouldn't call eachother morons and try to be nicer in our conversations"...all of a sudden they're a pitchfork-wielding PC crusader?
This is just a reminder. A suggestion.
(almost) Nobody is saying:
"Linus is a horrible person because he made an off the cuff remark that perhaps was slightly misguided"
"Let's destroy anyone who uses the word 'moron'"
"Hey we're all such better people than Linus right?"
"If someone called me a moron, I wouldn't know what to do...I'd just cry and break down like a baby...it'd be the end of the world"
Humans are fickle and changing creatures. Every now and then we need to take personal inventory as individuals and as a culture. Every now and then we need to say "Hey, maybe we should be nicer to each other"; especially when we are starting to develop a culture of being offensive, rude, and unproductive.
There's no excuse for calling someone a moron as far as I'm concerned. It will always be a lazy and wrong thing; it's just a question of to what extent. Being lazy and wrong is a part of being human, so yes...there are many situations where I saw one person calling another a moron I would be understanding and wouldn't make a big deal out of it. That doesn't mean it's not something that shouldn't have happened...
We as programmers should have an intuitive understanding that when something goes wrong you don't start pointing fingers, assigning blame, and insulting eachother.... No, we talk about what happened; why it happened and how we can try to make it not happen again.
Here we have one person calling another a moron. This is something that, ideally, should never happen ever. It's also something that is occurring in our community often enough that we as a community could use some talking about it to start trying to work our way back towards the ideal, regardless of whether we will ever reach it or not.
It's one thing to say "Your idea is a bad one", "What you say doesn't make sense", "Your reasoning is flawed"....etc. It's lazy and offensive to just dismiss someone by suggesting they are disabled in some way.
I also don't understand why people feel the need to take these conversations into the realm of absolutes.
If someone stands up and suggests "Hey maybe we shouldn't call eachother morons and try to be nicer in our conversations"...all of a sudden they're a pitchfork-wielding PC crusader?
This is just a reminder. A suggestion.
(almost) Nobody is saying:
"Linus is a horrible person because he made an off the cuff remark that perhaps was slightly misguided"
"Let's destroy anyone who uses the word 'moron'"
"Hey we're all such better people than Linus right?"
"If someone called me a moron, I wouldn't know what to do...I'd just cry and break down like a baby...it'd be the end of the world"
Humans are fickle and changing creatures. Every now and then we need to take personal inventory as individuals and as a culture. Every now and then we need to say "Hey, maybe we should be nicer to each other"; especially when we are starting to develop a culture of being offensive, rude, and unproductive.
There's no excuse for calling someone a moron as far as I'm concerned. It will always be a lazy and wrong thing; it's just a question of to what extent. Being lazy and wrong is a part of being human, so yes...there are many situations where I saw one person calling another a moron I would be understanding and wouldn't make a big deal out of it. That doesn't mean it's not something that shouldn't have happened...
We as programmers should have an intuitive understanding that when something goes wrong you don't start pointing fingers, assigning blame, and insulting eachother.... No, we talk about what happened; why it happened and how we can try to make it not happen again.
Here we have one person calling another a moron. This is something that, ideally, should never happen ever. It's also something that is occurring in our community often enough that we as a community could use some talking about it to start trying to work our way back towards the ideal, regardless of whether we will ever reach it or not.
I think that xkcd was about overreacting to someone being wrong on the internet, and was making fun of the people who (all of us at times) start flaming with extreme prejudice when they see it.
I am proud that I still feel a bit of shame when I catch myself doing that, and glad that I haven't been able to rationalize it as a excess that I deserve because I am so awesome.
Instead, I try not to talk to idiots, unless they're in my way or about to get in my way, and then I sprinkle sugar all over what I'm about to say as if I was talking to a child. It's important for me to remember that I'm trying to advance my own goals, rather than make someone feel stupid. This applies even when I am speaking to the stupid.
I am proud that I still feel a bit of shame when I catch myself doing that, and glad that I haven't been able to rationalize it as a excess that I deserve because I am so awesome.
Instead, I try not to talk to idiots, unless they're in my way or about to get in my way, and then I sprinkle sugar all over what I'm about to say as if I was talking to a child. It's important for me to remember that I'm trying to advance my own goals, rather than make someone feel stupid. This applies even when I am speaking to the stupid.
"Nope, they were not fortunate. If you think that's luck, you should spend your time playing lottery."
Everybody who succeeds is fortunate. They were fortunate to be born into a well-to-do family(if they were) in, perhaps, a developed country, or at the very least fortunate not to have starved in an undeveloped one, fortunate to attend school and be educated, most of all, fortunate enough to be endowed with a highly intelligent brain that was shaped and molded and cultivated by the people around them. If you think you did anything alone in your entire life, you are sorely mistaken.
Nobody succeeds alone. Everybody around you deserves respect because they co-authored your life
Everybody who succeeds is fortunate. They were fortunate to be born into a well-to-do family(if they were) in, perhaps, a developed country, or at the very least fortunate not to have starved in an undeveloped one, fortunate to attend school and be educated, most of all, fortunate enough to be endowed with a highly intelligent brain that was shaped and molded and cultivated by the people around them. If you think you did anything alone in your entire life, you are sorely mistaken.
Nobody succeeds alone. Everybody around you deserves respect because they co-authored your life
I was going to take your argument a lot more seriously, but then I came to this part:
fortunate enough to be endowed with a highly intelligent brain
That's just taking it too far. By that same logic they were fortunate that, about 2 billion years, certain bacteria and algae began to appear and thus we have life on Earth today.
If you think did anything alone in your entire life, you are sorely mistaken.
We're all standing on the shoulders of the giants. That doesn't mean we should spend our time looking down and exclaiming "Wow, these guys sure are tall!" We should be aware of where we are, grateful that we're there and make the best of it. And that means look forward and up, not down.
Everybody around you deserves respect because they are the co-authors of your life.
That's where you're wrong. It's true that everything in my life factors into my personality and my measure of success. That doesn't automatically mean that everything and everyone around me deserves my respect.
Like it or not, certain levels of respect have to be earned. Likewise, respect can be easily squandered.
fortunate enough to be endowed with a highly intelligent brain
That's just taking it too far. By that same logic they were fortunate that, about 2 billion years, certain bacteria and algae began to appear and thus we have life on Earth today.
If you think did anything alone in your entire life, you are sorely mistaken.
We're all standing on the shoulders of the giants. That doesn't mean we should spend our time looking down and exclaiming "Wow, these guys sure are tall!" We should be aware of where we are, grateful that we're there and make the best of it. And that means look forward and up, not down.
Everybody around you deserves respect because they are the co-authors of your life.
That's where you're wrong. It's true that everything in my life factors into my personality and my measure of success. That doesn't automatically mean that everything and everyone around me deserves my respect.
Like it or not, certain levels of respect have to be earned. Likewise, respect can be easily squandered.
But considering that 90% of the organisms that have ever lived on Earth have died without reproducing, and therefore you are the end result of a line of organisms every single one of which lived to reproduce, then yes, I'd say we are lucky to have been born at the end of this 4 billion year long process and to have a human brain instead of say, that of a slug. But slugs are lucky too.
I agree that you can grade respect based on how much people have earned it. What I'm criticizing here isn't levels of respect but disrespect.
I agree that you can grade respect based on how much people have earned it. What I'm criticizing here isn't levels of respect but disrespect.
Do we really want to stand on the shoulders of giants looking down, flipping people off?
As long as we're having fun with the analogy: Whoever pelts me with mud is going to be lucky if I just flip them off.
But even people who don't "succeed" by the standards of the modern society are fortunate. Many "failures" live in developed countries, or in countries where the standard of living has improved dramatically over the last 100 years. They are fortunate not to have been killed when they were young. They have many things to be grateful for.
Why should the "successful" people be grateful any more?
And, furthermore, what if you define success in a different way? Perhaps all that Linus has forever wished in his live was for a specific girl to love him, and he just wasn't that "fortunate"?
Why should the "successful" people be grateful any more?
And, furthermore, what if you define success in a different way? Perhaps all that Linus has forever wished in his live was for a specific girl to love him, and he just wasn't that "fortunate"?
I agree. Each person has his own measurement of success, depending on the circumstances in which he lives.
>Nobody succeeds alone. Everybody around you deserves respect because they are the co-authors of your life.
While "nobody succeeds alone" is true, the conclusion you draw is not.
Some of those "co-authors of your life" write the _bad_ chapters.
Also, that nobody succeeds alone, does not mean that you succeed BECAUSE OF everyone of the other people. Some people you succeed DESPITE OF (and even despite their best efforts to bring you down).
While "nobody succeeds alone" is true, the conclusion you draw is not.
Some of those "co-authors of your life" write the _bad_ chapters.
Also, that nobody succeeds alone, does not mean that you succeed BECAUSE OF everyone of the other people. Some people you succeed DESPITE OF (and even despite their best efforts to bring you down).
You can argue with the reasoning here, but you can't argue with the conclusion unless you're advocating not respecting somebody. It's a nasty position to take.
Even if somebody writes a bad chapter in your life, it doesn't mean you should be out to write bad chapters in theirs.
Everybody deserves at least a basic level of respect. It's a fundamental component to being moral.
Even if somebody writes a bad chapter in your life, it doesn't mean you should be out to write bad chapters in theirs.
Everybody deserves at least a basic level of respect. It's a fundamental component to being moral.
>Even if somebody writes a bad chapter in your life, it doesn't mean you should be out to write bad chapters in theirs.
You'd be surprised. Live by the sword, die by the sword, I say. And eye for an eyelid. I will strike down upon thee with great vengeance and furious anger those who attempt to poison and destroy my brothers. And you will know my name is the Lord when I lay my vengeance upon thee...
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You'd be surprised. Live by the sword, die by the sword, I say. And eye for an eyelid. I will strike down upon thee with great vengeance and furious anger those who attempt to poison and destroy my brothers. And you will know my name is the Lord when I lay my vengeance upon thee...
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The BIG difference is that Linus says something (or some action) was stupid. He doesn't say you are stupid.
He doesn't call people morons.
Besides which, he's just about always right. That helps. So often the insulter merely doesn't understand the insultee's question or position or perspective.
Besides which, he's just about always right. That helps. So often the insulter merely doesn't understand the insultee's question or position or perspective.
I disagree. Well, I agreed with what Linus did but not the general idea of your post. If too many people in the group actively push against new people then the group suffers. It may appear no harm lost in telling the guy that made a suggestion that's already been made several times to go away because he's whatever the current popular insult happens to be, but it does cause harm such as reputation. The guy making the suggestion most likely does not know he was not the first to do so. Being nice about it may encourage him to try another suggestion he may have in the future and possibly benefit the group. If you just insult him then you're just telling him not to bother again, which is detrimental to the group.
"Sometimes you should be free to call a spade a spade."
Could you not say "black" instead? I think "spade" carries unnecessarily derogatory baggage.
Could you not say "black" instead? I think "spade" carries unnecessarily derogatory baggage.
Douglas Crockford wrote "that is insanely stupid code", he did not call anyone a moron for having written it. "Criticize the code, not the developer"
this post reminded me a lot of the Dale Carnegie book, How to Win Friends and Influence People. Calling people morons and having a negative attitude won't make you many friends.
> Calling people morons and having a negative attitude won't make you many friends.
This only matters if you want or need friends.
While most people do, there are some that don't.
This only matters if you want or need friends.
While most people do, there are some that don't.
It's also not likely to win people to your way of thinking, which is largely what the book is about.
The individuals referred to in the OP calling people morons probably aren't very concerned about that either.
Some might argue that they don't need to be concerned about that.
Some might argue that they don't need to be concerned about that.
Depends. There are places where you can find friends quicker if you call somebody else a moron. Few groups will hate you for talking trash about their enemies.
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How will you know if someone have read "How to Win Friends and Influence People"? They'll tell you.
Excellent point.
While raw communication can be hard to hear, I've found it lets me grow the most and it is far superior to no communication.
There is nothing quite as motivational as deciding that you're going to prove naysayers wrong. If they say that what you did sucks, you work really hard to make them liars. Anger is good for this. Hearing nothing but praise just keeps you from trying to do better, and sugar-coated problems never seem severe enough to invest time in.
It's also a clue (albeit one lacking social graces) when people speak strongly about something: the topic is important to them. Don't allow bad language to keep you from parsing a good point out of an argument; you might not hear that same argument from anyone else.
There is nothing quite as motivational as deciding that you're going to prove naysayers wrong. If they say that what you did sucks, you work really hard to make them liars. Anger is good for this. Hearing nothing but praise just keeps you from trying to do better, and sugar-coated problems never seem severe enough to invest time in.
It's also a clue (albeit one lacking social graces) when people speak strongly about something: the topic is important to them. Don't allow bad language to keep you from parsing a good point out of an argument; you might not hear that same argument from anyone else.
Create something awesome over years of your own life and have people make offhand comments with no depth of knowledge and then waste your time arguing about it. See how you feel then.
As long as we're ranting about coworkers' and acquaintances' word choices last week, can we stop calling our political opponents "literally horrible terrible people" and suggesting that they ought to be disenfranchised and maybe sterilized? Also, the word "backwards": it just means "someone who doesn't agree with my preferred narrative of social progress". It's really good at making you feel good about yourself, and for looking down on people, but it doesn't actually mean anything.
Contributing to an open source project is a privilege, not a right. If you don't like the way someone treats you you are free to fork it and shrug them off.
As a human being you should be as nice as possible to others. However that does not mean you have an entitlement to be treated nicely. It is your duty as an individual to take appropriate action when you perceive injustice.
As a human being you should be as nice as possible to others. However that does not mean you have an entitlement to be treated nicely. It is your duty as an individual to take appropriate action when you perceive injustice.
What a moron.
Yeah I actually thought this was pretty funny, I was about to post the same thing myself. Maybe it's British humour.
I'm British too, definitely our humor.
Well put.
Harder than resisting the urge to call people stupid is resisting the urge to think of them as stupid.
Stop being so oversensitive.
Linus's persona aside, I think one of the issues with software is that what we do is intensely structurally cooperative (rather than competitive). What I mean is that we benefit immensely from other engineers being more competent, not less.
Why are so many more jobs posted for Java than functional languages? Why do software engineers get little respect in most organizations? Because the average programmer just isn't very competent, and those of us who are a lot better (and over 10 times as effective, if given the right tools and environment) get held back by the culture the average ones create.
The problem is that most of these mediocre developers aren't "morons". They're people of reasonable talent who, for whatever reason, did not improve as programmers but who remained in the industry. We suffer a lot because of them, but calling them idiots isn't going to make the situation better. It's just being a dickhead. It'd be much better to actually solve the problem, but that's a lot harder than calling people stupid.
Why are so many more jobs posted for Java than functional languages? Why do software engineers get little respect in most organizations? Because the average programmer just isn't very competent, and those of us who are a lot better (and over 10 times as effective, if given the right tools and environment) get held back by the culture the average ones create.
The problem is that most of these mediocre developers aren't "morons". They're people of reasonable talent who, for whatever reason, did not improve as programmers but who remained in the industry. We suffer a lot because of them, but calling them idiots isn't going to make the situation better. It's just being a dickhead. It'd be much better to actually solve the problem, but that's a lot harder than calling people stupid.
To go to an analogy, architecture or civil engineering. Not everybody can be a Frank Lloyd Wright, and more importantly there are lots more schools, mass produced suburban houses apartment complexes, highway overpasses and public restrooms that need to be designed than world class museums.
They don't need to be done with huge flourish or be terribly forward looking. They just need to be designed and built competently, not fall over and not have a leaky roof. There's nothing wrong with this state of affairs. Civilizations are largely built out of boring run-of-the-mill stuff.
Likewise, average developers don't need to build operating systems, or complex thread schedulers. They need to build the 30 foot boring overpass or utility box of the software world. And in many ways that's more important.
They don't need to be done with huge flourish or be terribly forward looking. They just need to be designed and built competently, not fall over and not have a leaky roof. There's nothing wrong with this state of affairs. Civilizations are largely built out of boring run-of-the-mill stuff.
Likewise, average developers don't need to build operating systems, or complex thread schedulers. They need to build the 30 foot boring overpass or utility box of the software world. And in many ways that's more important.
I agree with what you're saying, but there's a crucial difference: in software, the "boring run-of-the-mill stuff" can be automated. There's an interesting problem there, even if the application is macroscopically boring. If someone has a genuinely boring job (as opposed to an ill-matched job, or possibly a job not worth doing) then that indicates a lack of automation-- perhaps the programmer's fault (he's not skilled or courageous enough to do it) and possibly a manager's fault (for not budgeting time to do things properly).
That, I think, is the hardest thing about managing programmers, in which I include the increasingly important long-term job of managing one's own career. There are very few macroscopic indicators of what work is actually interesting (and more importantly, what projects fit which individuals).
If you asked me, at age 19 when I knew very little about software, whether it'd be more interesting to work on a game or work on an OS or a compiler, I'd have said the game based on the project's macroscopic attractiveness. Of course, most experienced programmers would prefer to work on the OS. If you're trying to hammer some C++ legacy garbage from another project into usefulness, the fact that it's "for a game" doesn't mean very much.
What I actually find is that there's only a very slight correlation between macroscopic and day-to-day "interestingness" in work (which is why it's so hard for managers to tell which projects are interesting). More important is the work environment-- whether you have the autonomy and creative control to solve problems in a decent way and make the work interesting.
That, I think, is the hardest thing about managing programmers, in which I include the increasingly important long-term job of managing one's own career. There are very few macroscopic indicators of what work is actually interesting (and more importantly, what projects fit which individuals).
If you asked me, at age 19 when I knew very little about software, whether it'd be more interesting to work on a game or work on an OS or a compiler, I'd have said the game based on the project's macroscopic attractiveness. Of course, most experienced programmers would prefer to work on the OS. If you're trying to hammer some C++ legacy garbage from another project into usefulness, the fact that it's "for a game" doesn't mean very much.
What I actually find is that there's only a very slight correlation between macroscopic and day-to-day "interestingness" in work (which is why it's so hard for managers to tell which projects are interesting). More important is the work environment-- whether you have the autonomy and creative control to solve problems in a decent way and make the work interesting.
I can see your point re: boring solved via automation.
However, there is still a tremendous class of software that can't (or hasn't yet been) automated e.g. boring enterprise integration mush, or accounting software, or whatever CRUD app the company needs to meet xyz goal for the year.
Sure there have been some efforts to automate or semi-automate some of this but the solutions are often more cumbersome or boring than the original. There are probably tens of millions or lines of code written for this kind of stuff every year.
Sure if you look at a high-enough-level most of these look like the same thing (and thus easy to automate) -- CRUD apps basically. But the truth is that this just hasn't happened yet because the devil is in the often excruciating details.
The developers who end up doing this kind of work do critical stuff, it's the equivalent of building a working sewage system in a growing city, not sexy but utterly critical. No amount of programmer astronauts are going to keep the poop flowing away form the population.
http://boingboing.net/2011/11/08/what-happens-when-you-flush...
Still, if anybody could solve that kind of boring software development (something that can't be done with sewage systems), it'd be a multi-billion dollar company almost overnight.
However, there is still a tremendous class of software that can't (or hasn't yet been) automated e.g. boring enterprise integration mush, or accounting software, or whatever CRUD app the company needs to meet xyz goal for the year.
Sure there have been some efforts to automate or semi-automate some of this but the solutions are often more cumbersome or boring than the original. There are probably tens of millions or lines of code written for this kind of stuff every year.
Sure if you look at a high-enough-level most of these look like the same thing (and thus easy to automate) -- CRUD apps basically. But the truth is that this just hasn't happened yet because the devil is in the often excruciating details.
The developers who end up doing this kind of work do critical stuff, it's the equivalent of building a working sewage system in a growing city, not sexy but utterly critical. No amount of programmer astronauts are going to keep the poop flowing away form the population.
http://boingboing.net/2011/11/08/what-happens-when-you-flush...
Still, if anybody could solve that kind of boring software development (something that can't be done with sewage systems), it'd be a multi-billion dollar company almost overnight.
Others prefer to work on the game anyway.
I am relieved the author gave specific examples of what he was talking about. Both cases, in my opinion, seemed to be reasonable responses.
Poor grammar.
I am NOT! A! MORON! Could a moron do this? Huh? Could a moron PUNCH! YOU! INTO! THIS! PIT?