Paulina Sygulska on: How to network effectively(swombat.com)
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Paulina Sygulska on: How to network effectively
http://swombat.com/2011/2/24/paulina-sygulska-how-to-network-effectively
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So which one of them would you say threw more balls in the air (and caught them afterwards)? (:
I'm actually reading your book right now (took a break to check HN). It's very good, quite impressive really. I've been around a while and I'm learning quite a bit from it. Nice work!
[EDIT: oops, as RiderOfGiraffes points out, I have mistaken his identity]
[EDIT: oops, as RiderOfGiraffes points out, I have mistaken his identity]
That's cool.
No, wait, my book? I haven't written a book.
Have I?
No, wait, my book? I haven't written a book.
Have I?
So sorry- I confused your handle. This site is such a PITA with my iphone that I didn't trouble to double-check (and the app I bought for it is crashing every time I try to post). After reading your comment I went to a computer and verified that I had, indeed, fucked up.
But, anyway, since I brought it up, the book I'm checking out is here: http://exilelifestyle.com/learn-network-better/ It contains a similar point-of-view as the article here, but, of course, has a lot more depth. Networking is something I'm very bad at, and so I'm interested in learning more about it. I don't want to make a career out of it. I just want to be able to do it well in the appropriate situations. I'm pretty much a social clod left to my natural state.
But, anyway, since I brought it up, the book I'm checking out is here: http://exilelifestyle.com/learn-network-better/ It contains a similar point-of-view as the article here, but, of course, has a lot more depth. Networking is something I'm very bad at, and so I'm interested in learning more about it. I don't want to make a career out of it. I just want to be able to do it well in the appropriate situations. I'm pretty much a social clod left to my natural state.
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Great post, worst thing about networking is learning howto approach first. I read somewhere best way to train is to talk to people in a lift. If it all goes pear-shaped at least you have have a few seconds
Once I set myself a challenge of asking "How are you feeling today?" to at least one strange person on the tube a day. Good for getting out of your comfort zone as a networker :)
One more tip: You are networking with the people in the room, not with the ones on your mobile phone.
This makes sense on one level, but it's confusing on another. As a recent transplant to the bay area and an engineer at a big company, I don't feel like I have many "leads" to offer people. But in order to meet people, I need to network. How does one begin the process?
http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=2245063