Do you pay taxes to the russian government? If you do, then you are helping them wage war against europe.
Russia is a dictatorship, what are you doing to change that? Just complaining that there isn't anything you can do won't change anything.
Why should we in the west go out of our way to not inconvenience you? If you are not resisting the russian government, then you are passively helping them, why would I even consider it negative that sanctions bother you?