The crux of your question revolves around loneliness and your desire for companionship, but I think you're focusing instead on a list of inflexible requirements that you're imposing upon a person you have yet to meet. Are all of these expectations really what you need from another person in your life, or do they stem from fear of women, relationships, and trust? If it's the latter, insecurity is getting in the way of your happiness, and that's not healthy.
Also, I'm bothered by a lot of your wording. Some things to consider, that only you can really answer:
Why are you afraid that women are hunting you down for your "resources?" What is this presumed power/resource imbalance and what does that say about your opinion of women in general?
Why do you expect someone to have no relationship experience? You stated that you feel like you've missed out on building your own experiences. Why do you wish this mistake on someone else? Do you also expect your male friends to never have been in a relationship? What does that say about your respect for the experiences and agency of half the world's people?
What are the social norms around alcohol consumption in your city. If it's normal for people to drink socially once or more a week, how might your alcohol rules affect a person's other social relationships. It's this really about alcohol or is it about control or fear of the other relationships in a woman's life? Are you hoping to change someone? What's does this say about your own insecurities and ability to trust?
Finally, what do you imagine is a "decent woman?" Does she need to be Indian? Can she be more successful than you? Make more money? Hack better code? Have more friends? Is a woman with relationship experience not decent? Can a decent woman impress you? Can you work under a decent woman? What age is a decent woman? Are most women you meet decent? Does your definition of a "decent man" differ?
Also, I'm bothered by a lot of your wording. Some things to consider, that only you can really answer:
Why are you afraid that women are hunting you down for your "resources?" What is this presumed power/resource imbalance and what does that say about your opinion of women in general?
Why do you expect someone to have no relationship experience? You stated that you feel like you've missed out on building your own experiences. Why do you wish this mistake on someone else? Do you also expect your male friends to never have been in a relationship? What does that say about your respect for the experiences and agency of half the world's people?
What are the social norms around alcohol consumption in your city. If it's normal for people to drink socially once or more a week, how might your alcohol rules affect a person's other social relationships. It's this really about alcohol or is it about control or fear of the other relationships in a woman's life? Are you hoping to change someone? What's does this say about your own insecurities and ability to trust?
Finally, what do you imagine is a "decent woman?" Does she need to be Indian? Can she be more successful than you? Make more money? Hack better code? Have more friends? Is a woman with relationship experience not decent? Can a decent woman impress you? Can you work under a decent woman? What age is a decent woman? Are most women you meet decent? Does your definition of a "decent man" differ?