Just compete with the guys. "But then I can't win a gold medal at the Olympics!" Yes, join the club. 99% of guys are also genetically excluded from the elite-elite of the any sport.
Every June we hear dozens of statements like "We're so excited to see what you do with X. It's so new and amazing." And yet, they barely lift a finger to help developers understand how to use X properly. SwiftUI is a perfect example.
Their developer forums are apparently a place to talk to yourself.
Something is deeply wrong with them and I can't tell if it is merely a case of extreme oblivious arrogance, or if they are self sabotaging, perhaps unconsciously.
The idea that others are to blame for one’s suffering is maybe the most potent and toxic of all political ideas, and it has thrived like a mind-virus for thousands of years. The truth is that people of all races in the USA are _not_ blocked by racism from living a good live, but certain political forces sell this story (the victim identity) in order to control certain groups of voters, and play shallow ego-gratifying mind games in academia.
He's so oppressed he has like 100x more money than the average white person, while contributing nothing to society. Maybe some whites living in trailer parks should pay him reparations for all his suffering, while he collects checks from Nike.