yeah, totally. While it's nice to hear someone sing a different tune for once, i also got the impression that somehow "passion == wrong". really, we should be giving kids a flowchart --> passionate about something? (yes) go for it (no) be willing to do anything opportunity turns up, and keep your ears open for when passion calls. Loop every so often until you end up with a "yes".
It was by total fluke that I got into programming at all, but if I had been a "dream waiter" bum who did nothing all my life, I wouldn't have had the resources or maturity to follow that dream when it did turn up.
I'm glad you enjoy your job. I share your sentiments as well, but I think what the parent was talking about, is that some kids are thrown "Follow your dreams" so much that they are paralyzed by it. You and I are lucky to have found our passion now, but what were you doing before you found your passion? Some kids don't know their passion yet, and hence can't stand to work any job; doing anything, even sticking with a "random" faculty seems betrayal to their true calling. I've seen so many people who just wont do anything with their lives while they're just "waiting" for that feeling to kick in. They go to a job and come home navel gazing, thinking "is this it? is this it?" and when no magical sparks happen in the first week, they decide this isn't for them and is beneath them, and quit or just don't show up. Same thing in relationships: we're fed 'if you find the right person it'll be perfect bliss' so often that we're not willing to just do the dirty work, and find happiness in it. In short, we are a generation that doesn't know how to "settle". "Settling" and "Contentment" are shameful words in our society.
beautiful sentiment, but don't make him the center of your universe, because YOU should be the rightful, temporary center of his universe and not the other way around.
Remember that the end goal of your being his father is for him to become his own man; if your identity is solely 'his father' you will have nowhere to stand when he is no longer first and foremost 'your son'. A man with an identity crisis does not a mature man's father make. For his sake, devote your life to something honourable and deserving of your attention; he will see your example, and model after you, directing his energy upwards and outwards, instead of inwards and downwards like you are doing.
You may not believe me, but that's exactly what happened to the Chinese (my) people, so, be careful.
It was by total fluke that I got into programming at all, but if I had been a "dream waiter" bum who did nothing all my life, I wouldn't have had the resources or maturity to follow that dream when it did turn up.