She probably registered to a forum or the other portal and she used her email with the same gmail password. And then the data (list of emails and passwords) form a forum/portal leaked. Ask her if she use the one password to all accounts.
Twitter Bootstrap is the best CSS framework but you mean rather a website with a default theme. There are a lot of themes and templates of Twitter Bootstrap that don't look like Bootstrap, for example on wrapbootstrap.com.
in your case "fap" means doing bullshit like playing games or reading news. If you want to stop doing bullshit you should train your willpower. "No fap" is not only about fapping but about our weaknesses.
Don't give up. Motivation is a skill that can be trained like a muscle. Don't be afraid to make mistakes but never do the same mistake twice. Learn from other's mistakes. Exercise, I recommed martial arts. Read interesting books and watch good movies - start with http://www.imdb.com/chart/top. Eat dark chocolate and drink a glass of wine (or beer) every day. Fall in love. Start a family, have a baby.